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11 Signs You Might Be a Starseed
Living on this planet may at times feel like you’re a fish out of water. We may feel like quitting but we just can’t. It feels like we have some kind of mission to accomplish. You are probably a starseed....
What is The Great Awakening?
A term you may be hearing a lot lately is The Great Awakening. What is the Great Awakening? ...
Must One Be Vegan to Be Spiritual?
This world is ascending from 3D to 4D at the time of this writing. Many people would say that consuming animals or animal products is not in harmony with claiming to be a spiritual person. Spirituality, however, is not about doing, it is about being. Animals are also ascending and have agreed to the...
How to Get Rid of Crystals
If you have crystals you feel you shouldn’t have, we suggest an alternative to throwing them into the garbage where they will end up in a landfill....
There is Life After Emotional Trauma
There is no reason to feel guilty for allowing yourself to suffer from abuse. From the highest perspective, yes, you chose to have this experience. But we don’t always have the highest perspective. We don’t think the same when we are having the painful experience as we do when we are in the higher...
Are You Emotionally Honest?
We live in an emotionally dishonest world. We are human beings who have a wide range of powerful emotions, yet we do not feel free to feel them. Feeling generally is discouraged except in certain situations. For example , it might be acceptable to feel a measure of sadness and grief when you lose...
7 Signs You Are Surrounded By Sociopaths
Sociopathic people aren’t just serial killers and violent criminals. The fact that we think they are is the very reason why we don’t realize that we are surrounded by them. A sociopathic person has no conscience, experiences no shame, and can pretty much do anything at all without guilt or remorse. Rarely will a...
Discernment- How can you tell if you are being deceived?
Whether you are a medium channeling spirits or an average person making daily decisions, how can you tell the difference between positive and negative influence? First of all, it is important to know and understand yourself. You have to be honest about your feelings and know your weaknesses and what kind of temptation you’re...
Important Changes to This Blog
In order to help people to have a safe place to express themselves, I will be sharing my more informative blog posts exclusively with clients. Narcissists and sociopaths often threaten their victims to keep their mouth shut and to not discuss with anyone the abuse they are being or have been subjected to. The...
Emotional Abuse is an Epidemic
We live in an emotionally dishonest world. We are human beings who have a wide range of powerful emotions, yet we often do not feel free to feel them. Feeling generally is discouraged except in certain situations. For example, it might be acceptable to feel a measure of sadness and grief when you lose...
Help Kids Protect Themselves From Narcissism -Triangulation
You broke up with your narcissistic partner and now you are co- or parallel parenting with them. You have moved on with your life and you’ve found a new partner who supports you. The kids come over every weekend and you begin to notice that they seem tired and withdrawn. They often feel angry,...
End of Life Phenomenon (DBE) is Real
Death is so much easier than being born. When we are born, we begin the journey of separation from God/Source. When we die, we are returning home. At the end of life, a dying person begins transitioning into spirit once again with the assistance of family members who have gone before them and angels...
Why Gratitude is a Spiritual Practice
From the highest perspective there is no bad experience & there is no good experience. There is only experience, everything is neutral. Most of us prefer to feel a higher vibration or what is considered “good” rather than feeling a lower vibration which is often called “bad”. Feeling grateful for things in your life,...
How to Make a Positive Difference in an Angry World
How can you adopt the mindset of positivity, of unconditional love, in an angry world that wants to fight? It’s not easy, that’s for sure, but maybe this illustration will help. Imagine you are traveling along and you come across a caravan of people that has overturned on the highway. People are afraid and...
In Order to Heal Your Dis-ease, You Need to Feel Your Feelings
All feelings matter Why should anger, sadness & fear be suppressed in order to make other people comfortable? Pretending to be happy isn’t the same as being happy. If you feel angry or sad, those feelings will not go away until you allow them to be felt. All disease begins in the emotional body....
Are You Attached to Your Programming?
Are you addicted to the programs you are running? Let us give an illustration. When you were born, you brought with you into this life the knowledge and equipment you needed to carry out your purpose. You had had everything you needed to fulfill your human mission when you were a newborn baby. As...
ICYMI – In Case You Missed It
This website began as my blog in 2016. It is my online journal where I share my most intimate thoughts about the things that impact my life. I share both dark and light because that is how life is. There is darkness and there is light, there are positive experiences and negative experiences. Both...
Your Reality is Like a Game
Your reality is like a game. You have incarnated onto your planet in order to play this game. You came here to experience the adventure this game has to offer. Some of you are beginners, some of you are intermediate and some of you are expert players. Your only opponent is the game itself....
The Event is the Outcome of Your Awakening
Hello, beautiful souls, this is Christina the Black Swan Sibyl, greeting you in the love and the light of the One Infinite Creator. I am a medium and a channel. I work with a loving team of non-terrestrial beings from Sirius B. You can read more about us on our Sirius B page. Today...
Your Feelings Cannot Hurt You
Your feelings cannot hurt you Unless you suppress them and allow them to become subconscious blocks that manifest painful experiences and physical pain Then they can hurt you But feeling your feelings can only help you When you feel your feelings, instead of suppressing them, you will become clear and free Black Swan Sibyl...
Fifty Ways to Leave Your Lover
Yes, this is a title to a song by Paul Simon that was released when I was about 3 years old. (I wonder if it went through my mother’s head before she left like it did mine in 2016) For some time I’ve been thinking about writing a blog post outlining the things I...
Becoming the Goddess
My first child was born in 1989 when I was only 16 years old. Abandoned by the child’s father, I gave birth in a local hospital. I was accompanied by two employees of the girl’s home where I was a resident. Neither of my parents attended the birth of my child. I was young...
Anyone Can Channel
Everyone has the ability to channel in one way or another. The best thing you can do for yourself and your life is to learn to “channel” your higher self. Which is really just saying that you gain a higher perspective from that part of yourself that is beyond this 3D construction. How can...
14 Things You Can Do RIGHT NOW to Develop Your Own Intuition
As many of you may know, I have been an intuitive empath, channel and medium my entire life, but I was unaware this was the case until about two years ago. I had spent most of my life around negative people who did not believe in spirituality and who literally discredited my thinking and...
Are You Hearing Voices?
Are You Hearing Voices? This is a question I was asked often during the time I believed I was mentally ill. I never felt comfortable with telling the truth because somewhere inside my soul I knew that I wasn’t crazy, I was a psychic medium. I suffered for many years trying to suppress the...
How to Empower Yourself
Do you need to empower yourself? My latest ebook shows you 7 practices that will help to gain control & create freedom in your personal experience. Some of the points you will learn in this downloadable book include: The key to becoming empowered lies in recognizing and understanding that you are a powerful creator...
How to Develop Your Intuition
Do you want to develop your intuition? Whether you are finding your personal power, developing your innate psychic abilities, or just seeking answers to who you are, I am writing a new series of eBooks to assist you along your journey. Black Swan Sibyl’s eBook How to Develop Your Intuition shows you 7 practices that will help...
How to Accelerate Your Spiritual Awakening
Want to know how to accelerate your spiritual awakening? Here are 4 simple tips: Meditate, meditate, meditate! You hear a lot about meditation these days in the spiritual community and there is a good reason why that is so. According to the yoga sutras, meditation is, in a nutshell, the recollection of your divine...
An Open Letter to the Parents of Little Girls
Dear Parents, You have a special little girl in your care. She is not like most other children that you know. She already does not want to be like other children or other people, and as she gets older, this will only increase. This strong and wise soul has come to be your child...
What is the Spiritual Approach to Recovering From PTSD?
How can someone overcome PTSD spiritually? I understand that while someone is going through an awakening their past will resurface, but how do I get past it? How long does it go on? Am I supposed to be learning something? How do I know if I’m making progress in my spiritual growth with this...
Hope is My Middle Name
Hope is My Middle Name I was the unexpected and unwanted child of two drug-addicted alcoholics. When I was four years old, my mother abandoned us and I was left with my father. He was an angry man and responded to all my feelings with anger and rejection. In particular, he did not allow...
The Process of Letting Go
Much of my journey has been a process of letting go. Letting go of people, letting go of beliefs, letting go of idealism and expectation. I thought it was difficult to let go of people because I love them and I don’t want to abandon them. What I have discovered in this process, however,...
Love is NOT Controlling
Love is unlimited, so why do we try to restrict it to certain people?...
The World is Suffering From Spiritual Blindness
The whole world needs to wake up and open their eyes...
Sister Blister
Female jealousy.. gets me every time. I have trauma from my step mothers who felt threatened by my presence. Can you imagine? I was a little girl, 5 years old and onward, receiving catty female jealousy energy from grown women in a relationship with my father. They treated me with such cruelty. I’ve been...
Forgive the Groupthink
In all fairness, not one of us can actually see the big picture in each situation. Ultimately the key to a peaceful life is to treat others the same way you wish to be treated. How we act affects everything and everyone in our lives. What you give is what you get. Looking within...
Let it Go
When painful things are trying to leave your life, let them...
Setting Boundaries is Required for Happiness
How to set firm boundaries and set yourself free...
Children Are Your Reference
Be like little children ...
Awakening Mantras
Spiritual awakening is a process...
Thoughts are Actions
Emotions are reactions...
The Golden Rule and Why it is Golden
“All things, therefore, that you want men to do to you, you must also do to them. This, in fact, is what the Law and the Prophets mean.” ~ Matthew 7:12 We are one. If we want others to love us, we must show them love. If we want others to respect us, we...
Everything Changed When I Looked in the Mirror
I learned to love myself ...
We Really Do Not Like Free Will
Free will. Freedom. Do we even know what that is, honestly? There are no real rules on this planet. The only rules we are subject to are the rules the controlling entities have set in place for us. Without these so called laws, we would be limitless beings. We would not have to...
Psychic NOT Psychotic
What a loss that a person who is finally being aligned with a power from the other world is just being wasted...
An Open Letter to the Divine Feminine
No one can love you more than you love yourself...
It's the End of the World as We Know It
Reality is changing and unless we all awaken and shift with the energy, we are going to have a very hard time adjusting. Unless we let go of everything we believe and allow things to take their natural course, we are going to find ourselves in painful resistance....
When the Empath is Fed Up
Don't feel bad for saying no to harmful things...
The Trouble with Christianity…
Why does Christianity teach that spiritism is the work of the devil? According to the Bible at Deuteronomy 18:10-13, whoever employs divination, practices magic, looks for omens, whoever practices sorcery or binding others with a spell, whoever consults a spirit medium, a fortuneteller and anyone who inquires of the dead are detestable to God....
Empathic Coaching
I am pleased to launch a subscription service offering empathic coaching on a monthly basis! For a low monthly fee, you can subscribe for my services as an empathic counselor. It’s a bit like traditional psychotherapy, only better, because I will work with your energy to help you understand what is blocking you emotionally....
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A Lesson From A Grieving Mother
Six years ago my friend lost her son to suicide. I was in town when it happened and the grief that family felt was like a heavy, hot, wet blanket. It was suffocating. It was like an elephant standing on your chest. My friend lives with that elephant every day. I would like to...
Eat Like You Give a Damn About Yourself
Being highly sensitive, I know what people are thinking, even if they don’t say it. When it comes to female jealousy, few things get under my skin more quickly. I really have to check myself to not get defensive inside. Sometimes I just want to say to these women who give me dirty looks,...
Synchronicities, Seeing Signs and Connecting with Your Spirit Guides
According to Dictionary dot com, the definition of synchronicity is the simultaneous occurrence of causally unrelated events and the belief that the simultaneity has meaning beyond mere coincidence. Now when you say it like this, it implies that by definition it is an absurd concept. It’s just your imagination and you are crazy if...
How to Heal the Imprint of Trauma
Trauma is not what happens to us Trauma is the way that we remember what happened to us How we were wounded, abandoned, neglected Violated emotionally, verbally or physically Of course terrible things happen When we weave terrible stories around them they continue to haunt us and live within us They predispose us to...
How You Feel Can Change the World
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Empty
Today is February 11. It is Saturday. I am sitting under the stars in the backyard of an Airbnb in Austin, listening to the sounds of the neighbors’ Mexican music. Listening to the airplanes fly overhead as they fly away from here. Listening to the crickets. Listening to the feelings I have about the...
Jesus and Oneness
When Jesus (Yeshua) was on Earth as an embodiment of the Christ Consciousness, he had many detractors and many opposers as the world well knows. Throughout his ministry, the religious leaders in particular, attempted to silence him and subvert his compassionate course. They criticized his behavior and told him to stop doing his job...
Why I Hang My Dirty Laundry Where Everyone Can See It
I’ve been told that people think I’m “coo-coo” for sharing my feelings and thoughts in a public forum. That what I am doing is crazy. They have their opinions about what I should or should be doing with my life and they have expressed that in various ways. Not always nicely. They are allowed...
How to Transcend Drama
Every relationship is a great opportunity for growth. Every encounter with another person is a reflection of what we need to see within ourselves. When human interaction between us is painful, it is an invitation to look within and evaluate our own beliefs. Do we agree with the way people treat us? Does the...
When Your Body Speaks
We all experience physical signs of unhappiness They are a part of life Life is sometimes hard It is harder for some than for others How can we heal ourselves Without healing our feelings it is impossible to heal our bodies Pain feels real because it is real Psychosomatic disorders are physical symptoms that...
Self Love Rules
Things aren’t always as they seem.. things don’t always turn out the way you would expect. For example, when it comes to love. Everyone I know wants to love and be loved. Yet within the attempts to gain such love, there creeps in feelings of manipulation and fear and thoughts of inadequacy and insecurity....
I Didn’t Eat for 7 Days and This Happened
Before you continue… You should know that I am not recommending that anyone else try this. It should not be considered medical advice. I am simply documenting my personal experience. I am a 47 year old woman and I enjoy trying out new techniques to benefit my health. I have struggled with my weight...
Renunciation Letter
Jehovah’s Witnesses 900 Red Mills Road WALLKILL NY 12589-3223 UNITED STATES Dear Watchtower Corporation (AKA Jehovah’s Witnesses), This letter is to renounce my affiliation with Jehovah’s Witnesses. I hereby declare that I no longer want to serve as, or be known as a slave for Jehovah. Please terminate my account, destroy all records of...
A Blessing for 2020
May your 2020 be abundant In love In wisdom In justice In revelations May you have 2020 vision May you be watched over May you be guided May you overcome every adversary May you recognize every false advisor May every false guardian be exposed May you turn away from every false voice May you...
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