People’s judgements of you or anything else is a reflection of them
Not of you
Think about that next time someone tells you
You’re doing something wrong
You should be doing something differently
Your choice of association is poor
In fact, when anyone tells you
You’re anything but amazing
Don’t be defensive
Just listen closely
Really think about it
What is it you are reflecting to this person
That they’re not happy with in themselves
That they should think it’s up to them
To control you
When it’s really because
They feel powerless themselves
To change what’s making them judgemental/unhappy/dissatisfied
Whatever people say to you
Is a reflection of them
Not you